She just left for school.
I'm getting the cold shoulder.
I being glared at, at times.
I'm not even sure what I did wrong?
I guess she's just being a teenager but HONSETLY I can't remember one thing I did in the last couple of weeks to derserve this.
She was fine after the performances and I thought things were better, but I guess not.
I feel like an outsider in my daughters life.
I don't go in her room when she is not there. (maybe to put laundry on her dresser which is beside the door)
I don't download her emails anymore.
I'm trying not to ask as many questions anymore.
I just want to know how her day went.
She is so funny and makes me laugh when she tells me all the stuff that happens.
I asked her if she was having trouble with her boyfriend or any of her friends I get a no.
She won't even talk loud enough for me to hear and when I ask her to repeat she gets mad.
I see her laughing and joking with her friends and this is not the same girl I LOVE and live with.
She's happy with them. With me she immediately changes . Like someone flicked a switch.
I live with a sullen not happy person who avoids being in the same room as me and Walks out if I walk in.
It's not to say say doesn't talk to me, she does, it just at times I get this look and I know my girl well to know when she is mad at someone, and lately it's me.
I was hoping we could get through her teenager years without this but I guess not.
I'm not ready for this..
She does this to her father all the time. Now I totally understand how he feels.
I'm supposed to be herMOM a person that is there for her all the time and I don't know what to do.
I never had the relationship with my mom that I have strived so hard to create with her. I want to be there for everything. Or what she wants to tell me. I know there is no possible way I can be in everything, but get rid of the cold shoulder please.
I'm to drive her all over, BUT I barely get a thank you mom for going out of your way for me.
This Party for T is at OUR HOUSE and I feel like I'm interferring with the planning.
Somethings need to be done and I have to ask questions to know. Like how many people are coming and I get grouched or barely spoke too for that. IS that SOOO Wrong?
I get snarky comments when I ask anything , like I'm a little annoying child.
What did I do? I wish she would tell me. Then maybe we can work it out.
I miss my young lady. I love with all my heart. I guess I have to have it out with her.
Ask her what the cold shoulder is about and she can't tell me it's school stress.